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Don’t win the battle and lose the war!
Posted on June 5, 2008 08:00 by Brian Buffini

A couple of years ago, buyer or seller objections were likely related to the lack of inventory, or to multiple-offer scenarios. While this presented its own set of challenges at the time, today inventory is up, the market has adjusted and objections are a big piece of the puzzle you have to solve. Oftentimes an objection is the only thing standing between you and doing business with someone.


Typically, objections are just smokescreens for peoples’ fears. Instead of telling us they are afraid, they’ll throw up a smokescreen as a way to get time to think. When making a decision, we are committing to something and that can make us nervous. And if there’s one thing that can make people nervous, it’s buying or selling a home.


Listen to your client’s concerns; try to help them isolate what is causing the fear and then work together toward a solution. Remember, this is not a sword fight. A transaction is a commission that’s often already spent, but a client is an asset that grows and grows for years to come. Don’t win the battle and lose the war. If you have a desire for approval,  it can be easy to get sucked into an objection so don’t be defensive when you encounter objections. Take a listening approach to this and remember; objections are a smokescreen for what the real fear is.

A professional is excited to deal with obstacles...so go into battle for your clients; not against them!

It’s a good life!

Brian

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The tools of our trade
Posted on June 2, 2008 08:00 by Brian Buffini

The demands of the current market environment require us to be a highly skilled professional. The higher our skill level, the more leads we’ll generate, and the more income we’ll earn. Oh, by the way…we’ll have clients so satisfied with our services that they’ll become advocates for our business.

So the skills we develop are the tools of our trade. It’s true in other professions also. For a carpenter, it’s a hammer and saw. For a painter, it’s a brush and roller. For a pianist, it’s their fingers and keys.

For us…it’s what we say, and how we say it.

Using the right words at the right time with a seller is the difference between a sold listing and an expired one - a frustrated client or an advocate. The ability to master our dialogs and phrases is what makes a professional. So a word to the wise: use your words to build up; not tear down. Use phrases that inform; not infuriate. And most of all, be mindful that the words we use each and every day are often the difference between failure and success.

It’s a good life!


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Become your own best client
Posted on May 8, 2008 00:01 by Brian Buffini

The three opportunities in today’s market are first-time buyers, move-up clients and investors: 

  • First-time buyers. Many people have a desire to buy a home almost as a rite of passage or that fulfilling sensation of having a place to call your own. No matter what the market conditions, first-time buyers are always going to try to break in to home ownership.
  • Move-up clients own a house but it either doesn’t fulfill their current needs, or it’s not the house or neighborhood they want.
  • Investors who are looking for a long-term play in real estate are enthusiastically looking for properties right now because it has a built-in discount and an investor who’s smart enough to hold onto a property will have a nice piece of built-in equity.

My hope for people in the real estate community is not only will they help their clients skillfully through the transaction process, but they ultimately get to participate in real estate as an investor themselves. Become your own best client…and your fortune is assured. 

It’s a good life! 

 

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Feelings, whoa oh, oh, feelings
Posted on April 24, 2008 00:01 by Brian Buffini

In 1974, Morris Albert recorded this Grammy award winning song. At that time, it was considered one of the most strongly emotive and moving melodies. As time has gone by, when viewed in hindsight, the same lyrics that won a Grammy have often been lampooned as the sappiest song ever written.

 

Whether you like the song or not, feelings can be very dangerous for your business. In today’s market, there are lot of emotions; fear, anxiety, frustration and regret. Maybe you don’t know where your next commission check is coming from. Maybe you’re consumed with fear about where the economy and this market are going. Maybe you’re dealing with frustrated sellers who constantly focus on how much their home used to be worth as opposed to what’s it’s worth today. Perhaps you even have a ready, willing and able buyer who’s just afraid to pull the trigger because they don’t want to pay too much for a house.

 

The answer for a professional is to manage their emotions by keeping perspective. You need to know the historical trends of this business, how good of an investment real estate is (check out www.housingmarketfacts.com), and keep track of your own daily activities so you know you’re doing your best each day.

 

Feelings are great things. They let you know you’re alive. Personally they deliver the highs and the lows of the human experience. When it comes to your business, feelings don’t help at all. Manage your emotions, manage your business and manage your success.

 

How many calls, notes, Pop-Bys and business to business meetings are you having?

 

It's a good life!

 

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Time to air out your dirty laundry!
Posted on April 21, 2008 00:01 by Brian Buffini

With two adults and six active kids, you can imagine how much laundry there is to wash at our house. Sometimes we miss a couple of days, the baskets in the kids’ rooms overflow and when all piled together, the mountain of clothes looks like an overwhelming task with no end in sight. We have a choice at that time; clean clothes or go shopping for more.

 

As grown adults when we get behind on our lead-generation activities such as writing personal notes, making calls or doing Pop-Bys to our favorite clients, it’s just like a pile of dirty laundry. The thought of catching up seems overwhelming, the notes begin to pile up, and rather than sitting down and dutifully going through these one at time we let our minds drift: “Let’s run out to the Realtor® store and buy a talking house sign”, “Let’s go buy some internet leads”, “Let me do anything other than chip away at that big pile of unfinished tasks which will ultimately allow me to get my financial house in order.”

 

Very few people allow their dirty clothes to pile up for weeks on end, but in my experience, many small business owners will allow their lead-generation activities to pile up. Allowing your laundry to pile up is not the most hygienic thing to do… and if you put it off long enough, you’ll have nothing to wear. Putting off lead-generation activities isn’t too healthy for your business either and eventually will leave your financial cupboard bare!

 

It ain’t sexy but it’s simple enough: take care of your business before your financial challenges become your personal dirty laundry.

 

It’s a good life!

 

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Buy land; they’ve stopped making it!
Posted on April 17, 2008 00:01 by Brian Buffini

When Samuel Clemens uttered these immortal words under his pseudonym Mark Twain, it encapsulated what economists had been trying to say for years…that the fundamental law of economics is supply and demand. Outside of volcanic activity on the Hawaiian Islands, no new land is being created. Therefore, supply is limited.  

The world population grows by approximately 90 million people a year increasing demand year over year. Human beings have three basic needs for survival; food, shelter and clothing. And I don’t see that changing any time soon. On occasion, the market goes through cycles of having too much resale inventory and too much new product followed by a housing shortage and price increases.  

And even in the midst of surpluses like today, there is certain built in demand. For example, there’s a tremendous shortage of apartment buildings in many cities. Many markets are experiencing a surge in rental prices of single family homes. This creates pressure for the first time buyer to own and investor clients to buy. 

So buy land; preferably with a house or apartment building on it. They’ve stopped making it! 

It’s a good life, 

Brian

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Are you a chicken or a hog?
Posted on April 14, 2008 00:01 by Brian Buffini

The American breakfast provides a great analogy for commitment. Just like bacon and eggs on your plate, the chicken is involved but the hog is committed!  

I’ve met a lot of people involved in their businesses but not committed to them. They put in 70 hours a week but they’ve never really made the commitment to their career.  

Now I'm not saying you need to know what you want to do for the next 25 years, but I am saying that you need to be fully present in what you’re doing today. Who knows where life will take you…you may well be doing this for a very long time, perhaps in a different capacity or by working fewer hours, but when you’re not committed to your business as a career, you know it and so do your clients.  

So what’s it going to be? Eggs or bacon? 

It’s a good life! 

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Let ‘em know you’re there!
Posted on April 7, 2008 00:01 by Brian Buffini

That was what my old high school coach used to shout to me on the field. That was his clarion call to increase the level of physical play on the field. It seemed to work as he led us to a National Championship. One thing I know is that principles don’t go out of style. And if you want to win a championship in your business, it’s time to step up your physical interaction with your clients.

 

In the colder climates, people have been cocooned in their homes with fewer people interactions than normal. Now that springtime is here, get out amongst your people. See them at work, at home, at events, or at business networking meetings. Attend seminars, classes or take in a show or ballgame together.

 

Visibility is key; especially with all the negativity in the media about the marketplace. Knowing that you’re active and out and about deepens your hold on being their trusted advisor. When the going gets tough, the tough get out and visit people.

 

So, get in your car and Pop-By! Visit, or break bread with your favorite people. And for goodness sake, let ‘em know you’re there…for them!

 

It’s a good life!

 

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Master the six inch market
Posted on March 31, 2008 00:01 by Brian Buffini

In business there is so much that is out of our control. Unemployment rates, interest rates, and housing prices. Don’t ever get caught waiting for those factors to influence your personal income. There’s only one market you can master and that’s the six inch market - otherwise known as the space between your two ears.

 

There are many new agents currently doing well because they don’t know how the market is supposed to be. There are many veterans waiting for the market to turn to “normalcy”.

 

This is normal.

 

In each of the last five decades, there has been price growth and retraction; high and low unemployment; wars and peacetime. People are still going to buy and sell homes. In 2008, somewhere between 4.5 and 5 million homes will be purchased on the resale market. How many are you going to sell?

 

It’s a good life!

 

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Time out!
Posted on March 27, 2008 00:01 by Brian Buffini

A pretty normal week this week for the Buffinis: four kids in basketball, one riding competitive dressage and the twins in ballet. Eight practice sessions, two piano recitals, one three-day horseshow and a partridge in a pear tree! On the side, I get to create curriculum, present events, and run a 250 employee company. There are definitely days I go to work for the rest.

 

The truth of the matter is that you’re hectic too. We’re all so busy being busy sometimes that we can forget there’s more to life than just doing. There’s being.

 

The great King Solomon once said that life is just a puff of smoke…so on a regular basis in the Buffini family we call a timeout. For us, that means Hawaii. This is a place where the whole family knows how to chill out and just hang with each other. No agenda, no lists, no worries. It may not be Hawaii for you and yours, but whatever total relaxation looks like, call timeout and get there.

 

Tonight, I’m at Chuck-E-Cheese’s for the birthday party of one of my kid’s friends. I know I can survive this because tomorrow it’s aloooooohaaa!!

 

It’s a good life!

 

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